Hypnotherapy for Back to School Anxiety

Hypnotherapy can be a very effective treatment for child anxiety and stress.

Children have wonderfully creative imaginations and usually find it easy to visualise; this makes them ideal candidates for hypnotherapy.

Hypnotherapy can help to change the child’s pattern of negative thoughts and feelings associated with returning to school and can also be useful to establish the real root cause of the problem.

Children often find it difficult to express how they are really feeling, and why they feel the way they do.  Our solution focused approach is a great way to help them imagine their preferred future and come up with solutions in a calm and relaxed way.

Children, by virtue of their open creative minds and vivid imaginations, usually find it very easy to go into a hypnotic trance. There is therefore an increased probability that hypnotherapy will succeed in opening the subconscious to powerful thought-changing suggestions.

The rerelaxing nature of hypnotherapy is also good for the child, in that an overactive imagination can often be the creator of negative thoughts and feelings (especially in relation to school). Indeed, many schools now have introduced meditation as a way to relax children, aid concentration and focus and to release the stresses associated with being young.

One of the other major positives about hypnotherapy as an intervention for children is that, compared to many other types of treatment, it can be both enjoyable and fun so the child is much more likely to take part in a positive way and even ‘look forward’ to sessions making success much more likely.

If you would like to explore the opportunity of introducing your child to hypnotherapy, I do offer a FREE no obligation consultation which gives you the opportunity to meet me and so that I can explain how the brain works, how we can suffer the way we do and what we can do about it.

A powerful metaphor….

An Autobiography in Five Chapters

Chapter 1

I walk down the street.
There is a deep hole in the pavement.
I fall in.
I am lost…I am helpless.
It isn’t my fault.
It takes forever to find out how to get out.

Chapter 2

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the pavement.
I look the other way.
I fall in again.
I can’t believe I’m in the same place.
I am lost…I am helpless.
But it’s not my fault.
It still takes a long time to get out.

Chapter 3

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the pavement.
I see it’s there..
I fallen…it’s such a habit…but my eyes are open.
I know where I am.
It’s my fault.
I know how to get out.

Chapter 4

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the pavement.
I walk around it.

Chapter 5

I walk down a different street.

By Anonymous

Altruism … What is it?

Altruism is having an unselfish regard for others… But it doesn’t always come easily….some find it easier than others despite some psychologists believing that we humans are hardwired to have empathy.

Our ancestors survived in pretty harsh conditions in comparison to our lives today through cooperative behaviour.   We do know that we are better as a tribe than as individuals and altruism and empathy play huge parts in a sustainable community.

I’m sure most of us can recall that amazing feeling of fulfillment and energy -that buzz – when we give without the expectation of receiving anything in return.  We get that flood of happy hormones in our body and mind.

 

 

 

Hypnotherapy Puts the Joy back into Life

I know first hand just how powerful hypnotherapy can be in bringing about positive changes.

During therapy with Achieve Change, we spend very little time looking at our clients’ problems, in fact pretty much all of our attention is focused on how our clients want to feel and what they want to be doing – a far more positive approach which means our clients leave each session looking forward to the next! And regardless of what the issue is when we ask that question, ”how do you want to be feeling?” the response we very often get is “I’d be feeling happy again”.

It doesn’t have to be a major life crisis that brings a client to enlist the help of a hypnotherapist. One new client who came to see me this week summed up how many of my clients feel when they seek out my help, “Really, everything seems fine, I have an amazing husband who loves me and a great job.  I should be happy, but I’m just finding it incredibly hard to be happy”.

This is where our ‘solution focused’ approach to hypnotherapy really shines – helping people to re-connect with the joy and good things they have in their lives; by helping them understand what is happening in their brain, why their focus has shifted away from all the good things in their lives and helping them understand the small simple changes they can make to bring that focus back.

For Kate in Wittering it was a familiar story, “Before seeing Carrie I was feeling very low and sad, and nothing seemed to help. Since seeing Carrie I now take notice of the way I feel at the time when I’m feeling low or sad and I put positive actions in place to resolve it and that’s how I control the way I feel now”

For Paul persisting following an injury and a build up of stress had led to constant panic attacks, acute anxiety and a level of depression. “I could not sleep, could not eat, was in pain and permanently close to tears, resulting in my risking losing my job. My relationships with my family and friends were difficult, and I felt totally isolated at home and at work. By chance, I spotted Carrie’s advert and thought I would give hypnotherapy a ho as I had tried everything.  From the start, I felt hopeful as Carrie put me at ease, was warm, caring and positive.  As our regular consultations went on, my attitude and feelings improved. After two weeks, the panic attacks had stopped, I was beginning to take joy in my surroundings and everyday occurrences. With time and care, Carrie helped me to rebuild my self-esteem, treated my concerns, and taught me how to be happy again. I am now back at work, I look forward to the day ahead, and I have control over my own future.  I am no longer in jeopardy of losing my job.. Most importantly, my relationships with family is so improved, I am like a different person.”

If you’ve lost some of the joy in your life and you’d like to find out how hypnotherapy could help you get in touch to book your FREE initial consultation.

Struggling with Sleep?

Do you find yourself waking up in the middle of the night? Perhaps you struggle to settle down for a decent night’s sleep? Do you find it difficult to sleep as work troubles start to go through your mind?I

If the answers to any (or all) of these questions is a resounding ‘yes’ then Solution Focused Hypnotherapy may be helpful for you!

A course of sessions, each lasting an hour, is designed to help ease insomnia and help clients have a more restful night’s sleep.

Get in touch for your free initial consultation with free CD or MP3 track.

Do you struggle to get to sleep or stay asleep at night?

Perhaps you lay awake at bedtime with all-sorts of things flying around in your mind.  When you do finally get to sleep, perhaps you wake up several times in the night, or maybe even wake up really early and just can’t get back to sleep?  You might feel so tired, you struggle to find the energy to get up and face the day.

Do you find yourself getting grumpy, irritable or weepy?

Positive Thinking…why is it so important?

We are often being told that we should think positively, but many of us struggle to do it. It is also often argued that its not what we do that counts, but what we think.

What you think about, you bring about…
Being able to act differently to how we think or feel can definitely prove helpful in certain social situations. Sometimes, it may even save our life. Still, if what we present as the truth differs from our internal reality over a longer period of time, it inevitably leads to inner tension. This is because our thoughts trigger the same chemical processes as our actions.

The best way to illustrate this is perhaps when we are attempting to do something relaxing but find it impossible because our mind starts racing. Sometimes these intrusive thoughts can become more and more intense to the point of actually making us nauseous or gasping for breath. Sound familiar?

Your self-talk creates your reality
In the privacy of our own mind we allow ourselves to think whatever we like, maybe because we do not know that our thoughts eventually become part of our belief system. Moreover, our negative thoughts accumulate and are stored; in hypnotherapy we call this collection of negative thoughts our “stress bucket”. So, if we dwell on negative thoughts, we encourage our body to produce a lot of stress hormones which, once our stress bucket is full, will turn into anxiety and start waking us up at night. It sounds like a vicious circle, doesn’t it?

Words are alive
But we can stop this impacting our health.The first step is to become more observant of our self-talk. Now if we remember that even water crystals change their consistency when talked to nicely, imagine what effect this would have on your own life? Everything thrives with love, and there is no better love than self-love.

Practice can make it perfect
Now, I know it may not seem easy to suddenly switch this polarity around, but everything is achievable with practice! You can start by rewriting your negative thoughts into positive ones as this will direct your thought energy towards how you want things to be. By training our mind to think positively, we are actually acknowledging the potential for improvement and instinctively steering our actions towards solutions.

Every cloud has a silver lining
Even in challenging situations, instead of just labelling them as negative, adopting a positive attitude will boost our resilience, help us to persevere in the most difficult of times and even reveal some hidden potential.